Doubt 1 of 2 ... Is it just me, or does it sometimes feel like there’s a part of our brain, a bit like a ‘doubt factory’, that manufactures and presents doubts to us at the worst possible times? …. Sometimes totally jeopardising what once felt like a fabulous plan. by Clare Legge, 5th August 2018
Part 2 of 3 ... of understanding communication, projections and managing your combined energies in relationship. Clare Legge, 3rd August 2018
Note: the following is written from a heterosexual perspective, but the dynamic equally applies to all relationships.
Do either of these scenarios resonate with you?
A woman with unmet father needs…
Father was cold and distant and didn’t give her enough attention growing up.
It affected her ability to integrate her femininity, as a father would have been the first man in her life to recognise that side of her.
She spends her life going from relationship to relationship changing herself to match each man in the hope she will win his approval. Thus meeting the unmet needs for validation and love from her father.